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Kenyan Culture

Greetings

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Chara Scroope,

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  • The most common greeting is a verbal greeting followed by a handshake.
  • People are expected to take the time to greet and shake hands with everyone present. For example, if you enter a room with ten people, it is expected one greets each person individually.
  • It is a sign of deference and respect to support the right forearm with the left hand when shaking hands with an elder or someone of higher social status.
  • Kenyans may grasp the other person’s arm at elbow level if their hand is not clean for a handshake. This is a polite courtesy.
  • Men may greet other men with a handshake and a hug if they have a close friendship.
  • In most social situations, it is appropriate for women to greet one another with a handshake. However, good friends and family often exchange a hug and a light kiss on the cheek.

Verbal Greetings

  • Verbal greetings vary between different ethnic groups in Kenya, depending on spoken language (see Language in Core Concepts).
  • The most common greeting among those who speak Swahili is “HᲹ” (Hello) or the more colloquial greeting of “J”. Both greetings can be responded to with the phrase پᲹ”, which means “I am well”.
  • Other common greetings in contemporary Kenya include ‘or ‘M’. The typical response to these greetings is “PDz” – a more casual way of saying “Hello”.
  • Kenyans often inquire about each other’s family and well-being during greetings.

Forms of Address

  • When greeting a man, the polite address is ‘bɲԲ’ (a combination of ‘mister’ and ‘sir’).
  • ‘M’ (‘older man’ or ‘elder’) is used for older men – roughly 40 years or over. This term signifies respect for the person, their wisdom and experience as an elder.
  • The typical form of address for women of any age is ‘m’.
  • Children are often addressed as ‘ɲٴdzٴ’ (plural form) or ‘tdzٴ’ (singular form).

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